Establishing Balance between Parenting and a Happy Marriage Life

Do you feel your married life has affected after the addition in your family?

Arrival of  baby in the family changes the roles and responsibilities of both husband and wife. Both husband and wife focus more on the new born so they get less time together. As a result they start losing interests in each other. Maintaining the same intimacy and relationship with your partner is as important as raising children. You should not neglect caring for yourself, spouse and children. It is important to bring flexibility in your life.

Spending quality time together: 

Raising children requires lots of patience. It is a full time job for the parents and especially mother. Women should think about the qualities to maintain a happy marriage life at the same time balancing motherhood. After the addition of children in a family the initial loss of intimacy is obvious. In the midst of your busy schedule take your time out to spend some quality time with your partner. Couples should make sure that they set time aside for talking and listening. This is important to maintain the understanding of the partner’s intrapersonal lives. After your children go to sleep spend some time talking with your spouse about anything that will make each other happy. This will let you to fall in love with each other again.

Compliments:

Giving compliments to each other is no big deal. The only thing is that you have to make a habit of it and it will work like a magic potion. Give compliments for the smallest thing like “Honey, dinner was great, you made my favorite dish.” This remark will work like a magic and it will make her feel more loving. Read the rest of this entry »

Love and Infatuation

Love and Infatuation

It is difficult to chain down feelings in words. Words have limited alphabets to express its meaning, whereas feelings and emotions fly in the sky, dances with the rain, murmurs with the wind and flows with the river. How can one bind the sky, rain, wind and river within the twenty- six English alphabets? Feelings like love and infatuation is hard to describe in words. These are like feelings that act as instant triggers and give the instant thrill but often fade away over time. They either makes you feel happy or make you feel sad. It is dependent on different circumstances. It is the situation, the ambience around, the people and their words and action that make you react to be just happy, overwhelmed with happiness or depressed or annoyed. So to understand what is love and what is infatuation, one need to listen to one’s conscience. One needs to feel the exhilaration of ultimate passion of one’s existence.

Infatuation – The Instant Desire

“The heart has its reason which reason does not understand”-is a very true statement when one finds oneself more attracted towards the call of one’s heart. If a person gets attracted towards another individual at an instance, we term the feeling as infatuation.

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