Establishing Balance between Parenting and a Happy Marriage Life

Do you feel your married life has affected after the addition in your family?

Arrival of  baby in the family changes the roles and responsibilities of both husband and wife. Both husband and wife focus more on the new born so they get less time together. As a result they start losing interests in each other. Maintaining the same intimacy and relationship with your partner is as important as raising children. You should not neglect caring for yourself, spouse and children. It is important to bring flexibility in your life.

Spending quality time together: 

Raising children requires lots of patience. It is a full time job for the parents and especially mother. Women should think about the qualities to maintain a happy marriage life at the same time balancing motherhood. After the addition of children in a family the initial loss of intimacy is obvious. In the midst of your busy schedule take your time out to spend some quality time with your partner. Couples should make sure that they set time aside for talking and listening. This is important to maintain the understanding of the partner’s intrapersonal lives. After your children go to sleep spend some time talking with your spouse about anything that will make each other happy. This will let you to fall in love with each other again.

Compliments:

Giving compliments to each other is no big deal. The only thing is that you have to make a habit of it and it will work like a magic potion. Give compliments for the smallest thing like “Honey, dinner was great, you made my favorite dish.” This remark will work like a magic and it will make her feel more loving. Read the rest of this entry »

Difference between men and women

The differences between men and women are universal. People who are in the relationships have great expectations from their partners. They want their partners to exhibit the same attitudes and behaviors as they expect from them. However we know that we can’t change the habits, behavior and attitude unless they themselves want to change it. This will build up differences between them rather than bringing them together. So it is very necessary that you learn and accept the differences and enrich your relationships.

Physical differences: However a physical difference does not matter much but when it comes to brain it does. Women brains are more tightly packed with cells in the area which controls the mental processes like judgment, personality, memories. Hence it has been found that women are good in problem solving skills as compared to that of males. They can do multiple activities at the same time while men do tasks step by step.

Better understanding: Men and women can be difficult at many times and understanding each other and acting skillfully in spite of the differences will make a good bonding. They have to understand that they are different and they can not be alike.

Problem solving skills: As mentioned earlier, due the structural difference of the brains women are better than men in problem solving skills. Men also approach to problems with similar goals but the way they solve the problem is different as compared to women. Generally it has been found that most men are less concerned in solving the problems even if it is related to their personal life. Sometimes this makes the situation worse. Read the rest of this entry »